Blog Comments vs Social Media

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Blogging is, if you look in the right places, undergoing a little underground rebirth. Not quite a phoenix like rise, given its prominence in the early 1990s as Blogger bestrode the online world, but it certainly is gaining some traction in the nicer, friendly, quieter corners of the web.

I will happily admit that I have some bias to this growth and hope it succeeds for, just as when I was deep in my blogging heyday – creating Scottish Blogs, being interviewed on BBC Radio Scotland, featuring in the Guardian, being mentioned in the O’Riley Blogging book (modest, ain’t I) – I can sense the friendships sparking online.

I’ve been revisiting some blogs I used to follow ardently back in that day but, alas, my blogroll of favourite sites is now largely full of dormant links.

Sidenote; Diamond Geezer is still going strong and still churning out an amazing amount of top quality content. I once had the good pleasure to meet him briefly in London, along with a few other stellar bloggers of the UK scene, many moons ago.

I’ve got my RSS feeds cranked up, thanks to NetNewsWire which is exactly the no-cruft reader I prefer, and I’m taking time to click through to the websites more often, remembering my own excitement and the stats telling me how many people had visited a post rose from single to double figures!

There is one thing that is lacking, one thing that largely powered the exploration and explosion of blogging when it all first started. Back before there was social media, when the only influencers we followed were doing so because they felt passionately about something (rather than being paid to pretend to be passionate about something), it was the heady days of the early web and it was a place of happy joy for the most part.

Find a link, visit the blog, read, leave a comment, move on. I will admit I probably spent about an hour or so each day doing this. But as we had yet to have Twitter thrust upon us, it was the online equivalent of having a conversation.

Comments drove the interactions, drove the discovery, drove connections and created partnerships, some of those for life. All that from a few words and a shared link.

Time was I could posit a question on my blog, ask for advice about, say, which bands to check out at a local festival, and I’d have multiple people pitching in with their suggestions. It was a way to give back, and I did the same on the sites of others.

But it was more than that, it was discussion, open, honest, in public. A thoughtful blog post would inspire equally thoughtful comments, with people taking the time to craft a response, something we appear to have lost in the quick-fire ‘reply and move on’ approach that social media prefers.

And a lot of the newer blogs that I’m seeing don’t even have comments available, sometimes because the platform doesn’t offer a native option (Blogger didn’t, but that gave rise to options like Haloscan which I got involved with too), sometimes because all the writer wants is a LIKE.

Which is fine, and for the those of us who exist in the low-traffic locations of the web, I get it. We publish more to share and publish, than to interact. We have other places for that, yet, in a similar way to this quiet rise in the number of blogs appearing, there is also a noticeable trend of those self same new (or rediscovering) bloggers vocally quitting social media.

I fall somewhere in between, of course, with a long term blog that was only briefly in the mid-traffic zones many years ago, which still has comments, and who is slowly moving away from social media as best he can.

Oddly, on that latter point, whilst I ditched X a couple of years ago and happily picked up Threads, I find that my recent ‘pause’ of Threads usage has seen me on BlueSky treating it very much like early Twitter. Reaching out, interacting, and finding connections. It is bringing discovery back, it’s even fun at times (with careful curation of who I’m following), and it reminds me of when the internet was a place I enjoyed visiting.

The world wasn’t necessarily a better place back then, it’s only been 10 -15 years, but the way social media has skewed things, driven attention to outrage for clicks (and money), the casual forgetting that we are the product, means it feels bad.

OK, it IS worse as America has an idiot dictator holding power but, isn’t he only there because of social media?

Would comments on blogs have stopped any of this? Perhaps? Would gentler connections across the world, connections not focused on skewing attentions for the sake of generating more money for the billionaires, have helped soften our world and not left a bunch of hateful, racist, fascists at the helm?

Would a comment move a secluded individual from the pathway to incel? Would a kind word alter the choice of a disillusioned kid with access to guns?

How many of the anonymous social media gremlins, so used to spouting their hatred and vile with abandon with no accountability, would pause if asked to leave their name and email? Yes these things can be faked, but dashing out words of spite on X is one button click from being published. Comments have a tiny bit more friction and, perhaps, the awareness that IPs are tracked too?

I admit, it’s a leap. But in an online world driven by algorithms, if every interaction was softened a little maybe it would keep the more extreme views of the world at bay, or at least reduce those making the noise. Of course that presumes that there is kindness remaining to be shared, and again I look at social media and the permission it has given so many to be so awful.

Maybe we are doomed, and the blogging heyday was just that, a short period of time of popularity which we won’t be able to revisit.

Or maybe, as with every stone dropped in the ocean, we can slowly change its course?

I realise this is a ridiculous notion, and I am not actually positing that blog comments can change the world. Plenty of bad things happened when blog comments were prevalent. But there is a definite correlation (not causation I know) between the decline of blogging as we all moved to social media. The decline of effort to ease, the decline of thought to mindlessness. I followed it too.

Digital Curation

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I’ve done it again. Made plans with myself to do two things, both of which have been bubbling along in my head for a few months now, both of which will take a fair amount of prep work, but it feels like the right time to do them.

Not in an ‘ohh it’s almost the end of the year I’d better get this shit done’ kinda way, more an acceptance that both tasks will take some months to complete, and planning for that accordingly.

It started when Apple released their Journal app.

It started after another round of trying to find an easier/nicer way to blog.

Journalling

I’ve used Day One since 2011. Not everyday, far from it, but there are still ~2000 entries in there. Some of them are meaningful to me, dealing with deeper thoughts and emotions, some are a little performative (hindsight eh!) in terms of trying different styles of journalling (3 Things that went well today… etc), and some which, as I’ve started looking back at them, make no sense to me whatsoever but must’ve felt important enough at the time to write down?

Yes I’m slowly reviewing these, month at a time, and moving (copy/paste) them from Day One to Apple Journal.

My long term aim is to ditch Day One. I don’t use many of its extra features, it’s always been more private note/diary than personal improvement tool, so Apple Journal meets my needs, plus having it baked into the Apple ecosystem means that I can easily capture days that include photos I’ve taken.

Yes, there are some improvements that Apple could add (an Import feature would be useful right now!), but it’s good enough for me.

Blog

My blog has always been text focussed. I’ve posted a few photos here and there but mostly used Flickr for that, and now Instagram but I don’t really do photography any more, just take snapshots of my life so it’s not as important to me as it was back when I had time/money/desire to treat photography as a hobby.

I started my blog in 1999 with hand written HTML code but the focus was always on the words. I had (and still have) no real direction for it, it’s just thoughts and life commentary, my public diary if you will.

Looking back over the early years there is a LOT of posts which make no sense, or have zero value today (links to websites that no longer exist, one line commentary on something I can’t even remember now, etc) and so I’m starting to cull those from my current blog, with a view to slimming it down to only things I want to keep.

Once I’ve done that I will start looking at moving it from hosted WordPress to somewhere else that is simpler, cheaper, and has fewer hoops to jump through. Bear is where I’m leaning at present but that’s not set in stone and as it’ll be several months before I get to that stage, I’ll reassess then.

Less stuff

It’s no coincidence that these are the two digital tasks I’ve chosen to undertake given my recent post about Legacy and the things we leave behind us. Inheriting the digital photos and files from my Dad’s PC is something I haven’t even considered yet either and, to be honest, I’m not sure I will beyond a cursor look.

It does feel odd though, in today’s technology climate where storage isn’t really an issue if you have the money. And I’m not doing any of this to save money, more to try and keep my digital life less cluttered. Many years ago I took the same approach with my physical belongings too, and I’m taking the same approach digitally. If it has some value to me, keep it, if it doesn’t, delete it.

It’s an ongoing process I know, I only need look as far as my wardrobe for proof that while I’m pretty good at decluttering, I’m not great at stopping it build up again. It’s a cycle, a rinse and repeat that I could avoid if I were more mindful as I went along, something I’m hoping I will apply digitally moving forward too and, looking at this blog and the types of posts I’ve published over the past few years I think I’ve got the hang of…

As ever though, time will tell. I may well be posting about this topic again (again) in a few years time.

26 years and counting

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My appetite for writing down my thoughts continues unabashed. Admittedly a lot of what I’ve been writing about recently has been very private, given the utter shit life has thrown our way through October last year to even the last couple of weeks of this year but, as it does, things are levelling out.

I’m being oblique for good reason, just as I haven’t gone into great depth about my sisters sudden death because her daughters may read this (well her oldest, her youngest is only 4) nor have I really talked about the circumstances surrounding my Mum’s sudden death, this isn’t the place (nor is it my place) for such details because, at this point, the details are pointless and don’t change what has happened. Nor is it my place to comment on more recent sad news (fuck cancer is all I’ll say).

But I am still here, and so is this little blog, still chartering it’s (filtered) way through my life.

I do wonder what my son will think of it all, how much of it he will be able to parse, how much of it he might start to see himself within, and which parts he won’t understand at all. Of course by the time he reads this blog (presuming he has a cursory look at least) he’ll have likely read all the letters I’ve written to him these past few years (43 letters and counting) so who knows what he’ll discern or even care about. I am very aware this blog means a lot to me but very little to anyone else (as it should).

It is odd to think of this blog through a different lens, I mean I know other people read it from time to time, but mostly it’s always been a way for me to think out loud, to share my thoughts into the void. That vain desire remains, still pushed by the one time someone said something I’d written helped them and by all the comments and discussions held back in the early days when we all had blogs because we had time for them…

My blog has long stopped being a focus for me, it’s not a priority, yet it remains and these days, that’s all it really has to do.

I do still wear sunglasses though.

Where will we go?

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This isn’t a blog

It’s a journal.

It’s obvious now, I mean it’s taken me a while, but I guess that’s because I’ve long been blinded by my own egotistical aspirations, spending far too long hanging on to the coat tails of the original bloggers in the vain hope some of their success would trickle down to my small silly corner of the internet, all of it back in a time long forgotten…

It’s 1999, I’ve just created an account on Blogger, I’ve manually copied and pasted the posts I had originally hand coded in HTML and I’m marveling at the ability to type text into a box and for it to instantly appear on the internet for everyone to read. All nicely formatted and laid out according to the template I had chosen. It was a marvel. No blockers, no technical challenges, just text and maybe an image, posted into a form magically appearing on the internet to be consumed by (potentially) the entire connected world. It’s such an everyday experience now but back then it really was a marvel.

Not being that forward thinking, I spent the next year or two posting random nonsense, sometimes multiple times a day, whilst reading other blogs, following links, searching the Yahoo directory for undiscovered nuggets. All the while, my contemporaries were focused, crafting niche content, finding their voices, building businesses, crafting unique worlds around their words and thoughts. Some of the people I was lucky enough to meet in real life went on to publish books, TV shows were developed, and elsewhere successful organisations were built that continue and thrive today.

I’ve always been prone to introspection though and so it was inevitable, really, that this blog skews to my own internal monologues and thoughts. I’ve never been a specialist either, something that bugged me for a long time. I’m not really great at any one thing, but passably good at a few so it makes sense that this blog has never been about anything more than my ability to write my thoughts down and publish them online.

I’ve said some of this before, of course I have, there is little new in the world it seems.

Which is also something I don’t really do, I don’t create. There is nothing new here, not real reason for people to stop by and there never really has been. So to what end does my voice matter?

Well, it matters to me. And a long time ago one post mattered to one person enough for them to contact me directly about it. But beyond that it is purely a journal, edited, censored, but shared. A glimpse of a life half lived. And that’s the real reason.

I write and publish to be seen. To be appreciated. My long sought approval by my peers that still drives me to this day.

It is ego. It remains an aspiration and, as the blogging cycle comes back again, I find myself rediscovery old voices I thought lost and as they whisk by on their sleek and honed vehicles, I reach out blindly once more. Perhaps this time they will take me somewhere.

Perhaps.

Six Thousand

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This is my 6,000th post.

Almost 1.5 million words and counting.

It’s a bit bonkers really. It’s one thing to consider the time that has passed since I posted my first ever blog post, but quite another to look at the build up stats surrounding this odd little place.

Yes I know, if you do something for so long the numbers will add up, but 1.5 million words is a LOT. Like, loads. And I still can’t stop spewing them out and publishing them.

It’s been a lifetime (25 years) since I started this blog and I’ve maintained it throughout, reflecting on myself as I journey through life, my work, my hobbies, my friends, my emotions, and my family (then and now).

There is, presumably, about the same number of years ahead of me; so many more words, topics, thoughts and dreams to capture and share to the 6 of you who still occasionally drop by.

But it’s never been about the numbers.

I’ve watched on as other bloggers – those who focused on a topic or two, who wrote better, were funnier, smarter and all the other comparisons I could come up with – roared on to success, to book deals, TV shows and wider acclaim, and whilst I admired them, and liked them as people as I was lucky enough to meet a couple of them over the years, it was no mystery to me why my little blog didn’t reach those heights, quite simply I wasn’t aiming for them.

I won’t go back over why I started blogging, nor why I continue to do so, but these little milestones are now things I take some pride in. Yes, it’s just a silly little blog, which means a lot to me but very little to others, but it’s something I’ve stuck with and whilst I’m continually tinkering with the design, the platform, the machinations behind the blog, it’s still the joy of writing and the ACT of writing down my thoughts that I enjoy. Even the smallest part of the process, watching words appear on a screen as I move my fingers across the keyboard, remains a magical thing. Yes, I’m THAT old. And yes, the publishing of said words for the entire internet to read is part of it too. Vanity and all that.

Threads recently had a couple of instances of ‘how old are you in internet terms’ posts, and all I can think back to is hand-coding HTML to appear as black text, on a grey screen. And two weeks later being able to add a background colour and an image. It was late 1997 if you are wondering. I spent some time playing with HTML creating my own start pages, first a bulleted list, then in a table, then with Frames, then with CSS… and then it all became easier with bookmarks and auto-complete and so many things we take for granted now, you know, like Google… in the midst of all that I wrote I was playing with building a website and needed some content so I wrote Sunglasses. The rest is, literally, history.

So here I am, 6,000 posts in and I’ve learned so much it’s hard to even fathom where to start. I am not the person I was when I started this blog, I’m into my third and final life stage, and whilst I remain Happily Imperfect, I still can’t seem to kick this silly little habit I’ve had for over 25 years now.

25 Years

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25 years

A long, long time ago
I can still remember how that music
Used to make me smile
And I knew if I had my chance
That I could make those people dance
And maybe they’d be happy for a while

American Pie by Don McLean

I can sing many songs (badly) word for word, the full version of American Pie is one. It was a song my Dad, who loved a bit of folk music/americana, played now and then and, long before Madonna brought it back to the masses, was a popular choice during my time doing Hospital Radio; some times you’d be the only one there so if you needed a pee you needed a long track, thank you Don McLean for this 8 minute track.

And no, he’s not a relation.

I’ve written at length about why I started this blog, and why I keep posting to it despite the fact my average readership is in the low double digits, but it still baffles my brain that it’s now entering it’s 25th year of existence. 25 years since I wrote about Sunglasses.

If I was more organised I’d now share some stats and interesting tidbits about this site, it’d be very meta (if that’s what the kids are still calling it today) and tell you which post got the most visits, which one got the most comments, who the top referrer was.

Instead I’ll ponder the people I’ve met, the publications I’ve been mentioned in and more. I used to have an Ego page on here but then I realised how little I cared about that stuff. Although it is still fun to remind myself that…

  • If you own issue ?? of .Net magazine, my (very old) site was featured on page… (it was it really was, but I can’t remember which issue. Dammit).
  • If you own the O’Reilly book Essential Blogging – I can be found on page 223.
  • I was interviewed on Radio Scotland on Tuesday, March 9th, 2004.
  • I featured in the Scottish Sunday Times Ecosse magazine on Sunday, March 13th, 2005.
  • I was quoted in the Guardian on Tuesday, February 7th 2006.
  • I was quoted in the Sunday Times Ecosse section on Sunday 11th March 2007.

But above all, I’ve maintained and cared for this site as I’ve grown. As I’ve matured, been through divorce, different relationships and stages of my life, through to my current delightedly happy state, married to the person I didn’t realise I needed until she rocked up in my life and kissed me, and father to a beautiful, curious, boy who I’d happily hack off my right arm for.

25 years and many more to go. Probably.