Year: 2019

Holiday weekending

More by happenstance than any form of planning, this past holiday weekend was a busy one, and ohhh so very good!

On Friday one of my best friends was in town which means beers and tasty foods (courtesy of Platform). it’s always good when we congregate, much laughter and nonsense, including curing my hiccups; the trick is to stand arms outstretched, chest out, and let someone help you take a couple of sips of beer/water, then a deep breath, and you are cured. It actually worked, although by that point in the evening, trusting it wasn’t a prank was not easy!

Saturday and we head out with Dave (the socialable one) to the Glasgow Vet school Rodeo! We met my sister and niece and then spent a glorious afternoon wandering the field taking in the various stalls, letting Dave cool down by belly flopping in numerous paddling pools, and then we watched a (hilarious) duck herding display! Add in ice cream, petting snakes and lizards, and some great photos of a very happy Dave and we headed home happy.

Saturday evening we helped celebrate our friend Sharons 40th birthday with fancy dress; I went as a Space Hopper, Becca as Sully (Monsters Inc). A great turnout (no surprise there, Sharon is good people!) and some great costumes. The theme was ‘S’ in case you haven’t figured it out…

Sunday was another sunny one, and we popped the bikes in the car (note: get a bigger car) and drove through to Linlithgow to hit the canal path. Originally aiming for a couple of hours, we all ended up happy to pootle on, crossing the viaduct, going through the Falkirk Tunnel (which was VERY cold inside) before a brief stop for ice cream and coffees at the Falkirk Wheel before heading back. Wonderful.

As we drove back home, we formulated a plan to get up early the next morning. Knowing it was going to be another hot one, we figured we’d take Dave and Sasha out super early before it got too hot, and we had Ben A’an in our sights. Sure the 5.30am alarm wasn’t much fun but by the time we got to the top with nary a soul in sight it was well worth it. Sitting at the bottom end of the Trossachs, despite the hazy morning mist, the views were stunning!

And that was the weekend.

How was yours?

Draft Posts

I have a habit of starting to write posts but not finishing them and then complaining (to myself) that I don’t have anything to write about. The moment will pass and then a few days later the urge will come rolling back in like a gentle tide and I’m back at the keyboard, typing out yet more nonsense to post on this blog.

My approach to writing blog posts hasn’t really changed in the past 20 years – which says something in and of itself – I get an idea, I start typing and don’t stop until I stop. I tend not to plan what I write, preferring to just get some words in place, hoping that I can rearrange them later into something that resembles a coherent thought or two.

For my regular reader, you’ll already know that it doesn’t always work out. Sure, I can get the words out but finding a semblance of order and common thought can prove a challenge at times. So I save a draft and go and read something else written by people with actual talent, and then spend far too much time (entire minutes!) wondering why I still bother.

I’ve tried a variety of things to get around this in the past; I’ve posted some creative writingĀ here and whilst that’s something I’m keen to back to it’s not always that easy and takes more time than your average brain dump of a blog post, I’ve tried a regular schedule (3 posts a week all the way through 2018) and that at least forces me to think about what I’m going to post and made me take a little more time to make it ‘good’, and I’ve looked for inspirational lists for ideas. None of these seem to have stuck, and then I remember that this is a hobby and something I do because I enjoy it and I relax and move on to something else.

All of this means that I have a number of draft posts that have never really made the grade. Yes, it’s a very low bar, but looking at the drafts I currently have sitting here I can see what I was trying to say in some, can’t really see it in others, and frankly some should never ever see the light of day.

Draft posts are not a thing to be ashamed of, and so I thought I’d give them a little light by listing them here, in reverse order based on when I last modified them, although what I should do with them. It’s been quite cathartic!

  • iOS Apps –Ā Every now and then I update the list of apps I use on my iPhone. Not done it for a few years and this draft is dated from Sept 2017 as it is. Also, not so much a wordy post but more of a list.
    Update & publish.
  • Writing space – A post about why I wasn’t writing, and how that is based on fear and trying to get back into the habit. Dated Oct 2017 I’m not sure why I didn’t post this one as it was accurate at the time. Alas, time moves on so it is actually talking about circumstances that don’t match my life as it is now so it needs some editing, which is why it’s still in draft. A lot of it is still valid though.
    Update & publish.
  • Clothed for life – I wrote this fairly quickly after reading another post about sustainable clothing. It’s very much a draft and doesn’t really say anything I haven’t since said.
    Delete.
  • Nanette – Safe to say the Hannah Gadsby show Nanette hit several nerves. I started to try and get my feelings out, on things like toxic masculinity and my own role within it. It’s mostly a circular journey of ‘I know I am not as woke as I think I am but I’m trying’ and reads very much like just another cis white male adding his voice and is dangerously close to ‘I’m a nice guy though’ territory. None need ever read that.
    Delete.
  • TV for sale – in which I look at why I watch TV and discuss some of the shows I watching. Written in July 2018, it’s out of date.
    Delete.
  • Glasgow man – written in direct response to an awful tweet from the “Glasgow man club” – which seems like just a good awful place veiled with good intentions; “Glasgow Man Club will give you the tools and teach you the protocols and routines to create a strong, powerful man. A better husband, partner, father, brother, son and friend; create better relationships with your partner, re-light that sexual fire, no more begging for sex; prove to your kids how awesome a father and role model you can be.”.
    Fuck that shit, say I. This draft remains unposted but I do want to revisit it because this is definitely a place where my voice needs to be added. (Dear guy, stop being that guy, thanks, yours, a guy).
    Update & publish.
  • Why am I STILL blogging? – I occasionally feel nostalgic. Or envious. Or a strange mix of the two when another blogger looms into view with tales of earnings and supplied products and… well I’m not doing this for THAT but it does feel like I could’ve made different decisions. But then this blog wouldn’t be THIS blog. My thoughts on how things have evolved then.
    Update & publish.
  • Apple no longer excites – I upgraded my 6 year old MacBook Air and the entire experience was smooth and… a bit dull. Same with iPhone upgrades. Mostly just me ranting about that and then countering those rants with ill thought through comments on WHY this is the case. Meh.
    Delete!
  • Dogs – As those on my Instagram will know. I now live with two dogs – Dave & Sasha – who I adore. It’s been a big change but a welcome one.
    Update & publish.
  • Going Monzo – My new bank account, and our joint account, is with Monzo. A ‘fintech’ company that offers an excellent app with instant notifications, balance updates and more. It has, in a short space of time, given me a renewed focus on my finances, just because it’s easy to use (the ability to syphon off money into distinct ‘pots’ has been a life changer). That said, this is mostly me waxing lyrical and linking to my sign up link.
    Delete.
  • Story of a back – Just me moaning about my sore back which, since I wrote this draft, has been treated and is on the mend.
    Delete.
  • 20 years – written in preparation of the 20th year of my blog.
    Update and schedule to be published on the big day itself.

So, it turns out I have plenty still to write about, I just need to focus on finishing what I’ve started.

Ohhh were it ever so!

Six by Nico: Paris

Bonjour mes amis, le moment est venu de revoir le dernier menu du Six by Nico. Cette fois-ci, nous visitons Paris!*

Don’t worry, I won’t be testing your translation skills any further. I’d heard good things about this menu and managed to sneak in to try it before it disappears at the end of the week; Six by Nico is still proving popular enough that we could only get a table at 9pm on a Tuesday night!

  • FRENCH ONION – Braised Onion / Compte Espuma / Brown Butter Croutons
  • COQ AU VIN – Chicken Terrine / Crispy Bacon / Soubisse
  • PETIT POIS A LA FRANCAIS – Slow Cooked Egg / Pea / Charred Gem / Ham
  • BOUILLABAISSE – Sole / Confit Fennel / Roasted Pepper / Rouille
  • PARISIAN GNOCCHI – Gnocchi / Lemon / Capers / Parsley (substitute for above cos fennel and pepper, bleuch)
  • BEEF BOURGUIGNON – Ox Cheek / Mushroom Duxelle / Shallot & Bacon Crumb / Red Wine
  • CREME BRULEE – Raspberry, Rose & Lychee / Pink Peppercorn Meringue / Brown Sugar

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A cheeky little apertif, La Marais Belini – French Elderflower, Lemon juice, and Prosecco – got the palate going ahead of the arrival of our snacks. Billed as “Croque Madame” the snack was a good example of the type of dish I wish Nico did elsewhere, just a bit larger as this would easily sit as a ‘small main’ sized dish. A slice of bread pudding, smothered in egg yolk jam, topped with a crispy slice of salty ham, with a rich parmesan espuma on the side, I’d happily eat it twice over.

But alas it was gone too soon and it was time to crack on with the main menu.

As much as I like onions, I’ve never really enjoyed onion soup but then I’ve never had it like this before. Dark heavily braised onions, a sharp but not overpowering compte espuma with dark brown butter croutons adding a nice crunch nestling at the bottom. This was more a tiny meal than a soup, a tiny pot of heavy flavours that was at once very rich and nicely comforting, just as a good soup should be.

Coq au vin is a dish I’ve actually eaten in Paris but of course Six by Nico offers a different twist. A triangle of shredded, most, delicately spiced chicken, radish, onion, and pickled mustard seeds, with a crispy bacon slice on top. Possibly the weakest dish, it was still very good but I think the chicken could’ve had a little more flavour. That said, pickled mustard seeds were a revelation that definitely gave this dish a lift.

French peas by another name, this was a very fresh and light dish, with a wonderfully salty slice of ham, a perfectly poached (sous vide?) egg, a richy creamy sauce, and vibrant green peas. It’s dishes like these, with such simple ingredients that really shine, and make me appreciate the skill level of what is being offered.

I decided to switch out the Bouillabaisse for the vegetarian option as I’m not keen on fennel or peppers. I’m happy to say that I don’t think I missed out at all. The Gnocchi was perfectly cooked, with crisp tops and a gooey middle, and accompanied with warmed raisins, samphire, and capers, with a dark raisin puree. Quite sweet for a main course it was still delicious, with capers adding a nice zing against the sweetness of the raisins, all of which sat well with the gnocchi. A much better dish than I first expected.

Star of the show for me was the next dish, the Beef Bourguignon. Melt in the mouth Ox Cheek, a smooth carrot puree, and the mushroom duxelle was wonderfully rich and sweet and garlicky, with the crumb on top giving the entire dish a bite of bit. Wow. What a delight, perfectly cooked ingredients, expertly delivered and with a wonderful linger on the palate. I’d have happily had two plates of this.

Except it was time for dessert. A friend suggested this could be the ‘best of’ for this year (already!) so I was keen to see it and I have to admit, he might be right!

Arriving en flambĆ© this was a superbly rich creme topped with a wafer thin brulee, accompanied with delicious rose and lychee sorbet, and thin slivers of meringue. The technical ability on show here was astounding, with each item on the plate delicate and well balanced, each flavour combination well considered and is one of the best desserts I’ve ever eaten at Six by Nico, or anywhere else.

What a menu! Not a bad dish in sight, some new flavour combinations (that gnocchi!), a new take on french onion soup that I might actually try, and THAT dessert.

Superbe repas, tout Ơ fait dƩlicieux! Bravo et merci, Six par Nico!*

As I’ve said before, food of this quality, served by knowledgeable, efficient and friendly staff, at Ā£28 for six courses – plus Ā£5 for an apertif and Ā£5 for snacks (between two) – and I think Six by Nico must be the best value for money in Glasgow. If you haven’t yet been, and are swithering because the menu is ‘set’, know that you can swap every dish for a veggie alternative, and they can omit specific items if you require.

And, in even better news (for me), I’m back there next week for the next menu… The Orient Express!

* Hello my friends, it’s time for another review of the latest menu at Six by Nico, this time round we are visiting Paris!
* Superb meal, utterly delicious! Well done and thank you, Six by Nico!

The latest doohickeys

My Dad is a bit of a gadget fiend. From the colouring change LED light in the toilet (it hangs inside the toilet, lighting up the bowl…) to a myriad of motion sensing lights, web cams, and remote-controlled stuff, he is always happy finding little whatnots and thingymajigs to make things a little easier/better in their home.

I think it’s safe to say it’s bordering on an addiction. What can I say, the man loves a rummage in a pound shop and it seems like every time I visit my parents there is something new he wants to show me. It’s not just physical gadgets either as this addiction extends to the number of applications he has installed on his PC (which itself is the receiver of multiple USB devices). I’ve lost count of the number of versions of software he’s been through to find exactly what he wants to produce a leaflet for the Burns club, or the constant quest to find the best app that will create a slideshow of holiday photos (timed to match his music track of choice, of course). The man is dedicated!

The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree – although my Dad remains stubbornly outside of the Apple ecosphere – but, dare I say it, I do seem to have a little more self-control for such things. Or maybe it’s that I’m a little more indecisive and tend to enjoy the freedom of researching to find the best X for doing Y rather than having to make the decision to buy said X. However all that research means that when I do finally make the plunge to buy a gadget, device, doohickey, or gizmo I tend to veer towards those that are well designed and well thought out and, invariably, that means it has been made with an eye on the user rather than the number of features.

Less is more, in my eyes, in that respect. I’d rather have a few very well designed single use products than one gadget that did 5 things badly.

Considerations

We live in an age where we can easily buy things and have them delivered the very next day, a service that wasn’t available to my parents, yet the lack of friction in those decisions – one-click ordering on Amazon anyone? – is something I’ve deliberately been trying to counter when it comes to making my own purchases. Whilst this is helped by my indecisiveness, I am focusing on not just ordering the first thing that looks ‘ok’. So all that research ultimately means the things I buy and own are well considered, and will offer better and longer value to me than something I’ve done a quick search for and bought without much, if any, consideration.

With a focus on owning fewer things, the things I do choose to own have at the very least got to be built and designed around removing an annoyance. Why would I buy something that irks me every time I use it? This is another barrier I put in my own way and I apply it to everything I buy these days. More barriers can be found with considerations for sustainability, and the ethos of who I’m buying from, and it starts to get easy to discount a lot of ‘stuff’ for several very good reasons.

This is a long-winded way of saying that these days the things I own were bought only after meeting my standards and benchmarks for what I consider an ‘acceptable purchase’ and I apply similar considerations to everything I buy from large expensive items to smaller everyday ones. At times compromises have to be made but by and large I’ve had a similar approach for the last few years and it’s stood me in good stead.

It’s safe to say that the everyday items I own have probably gotten more focus and attention as I figure out what’s best to buy precisely because I know I’ll use them every single day; the track belt around my waist, the Trove Swift wallet in my pocket, and although my OrbitKey keyfobĀ is suffering due to an overly long mortice key that we have for our new front door, until I can find a similar, longer, style keyfob it remains my choice du jour.

Yeah it’s fair to say that before I’d even heard the name KondoĀ I was finding delight in everyday items. It might only be for a few fleeting moments, and largely these items are forgotten delights that do what they do so well I mostly forget about how niche and useful they are to me, but I do occasionally pause to remind myself. This thing does what it does perfectly for my needs. It’s a lovely feeling.

And, dearest reader, I’ve found two more things to add to my list.

  1. A rechargeable under unit light
  2. A new belt

Ohhh yes, it’s all rock and roll here!!

I have seen the light

Not long after we moved into our new home, we both realised that one spot in the kitchen was not well served by the existing ceiling lights. As we rent, a temporary solution was needed. Off I went, hunting for something that would cast some light under a particular unit and I eventually stumbled on the wonder that is known as… wait for it… the ā€œRTSU Touch Light, Rechargeable Wireless Magnetic Stick-on Anywhere Night Light Closet Lights Wardrobe Light, Dimmable LED Tap Light Bar Under Cabinet Lighting, Portable Push Light, Under Desk Lampā€ (via Amazon). Catchy, huh!

Despite that long product name, it’s really simple to use. Stick a couple of metal ā€˜feet’ to the underside of a unit, and the little LED bar attaches to that via magnets. It’s rechargeable (by USB) and needs the barest of touches to turn on and/or off. You can tap it again to increase the brightness and it will remember what it was set to the next time you turn it on. The batteries are lasting about a month at a time although we are a little prone to leaving it on by accident….

It is simple. Well designed. Cheap. Perfect for what we need. And every time I turn it on I’m reminded of what a great find it was.

Belt up!

Now, remember that track belt I mentioned? It was a present from my parents and at the time it was a good improvement on the more classic buckle belt, especially with my fluctuating waist line (alas both out and in!) but it has a couple of flaws, with the buckle becoming detached from the belt on more than one occasion (bad design!). It wasn’t enough of an issue to make me get rid of it, at least it wasn’t until I finally succumbed to an Instagram ad* that kept appearing and bought a GRIP6 belt.

It’s a revelation!

The concept is simple enough, a webbing belt and a simple pass through ā€˜buckle’ which grips the belt fabric. No holes, no teeth, infinitely adjustable, I’ve been using it for a couple of weeks now and it’s not failed once (which was my main concern, if not THE main concern for a belt!). With no moving parts, just a metal buckle with two slots, and the webbing belt itself, the only potential part that could break is the ‘end stop’ at one end of the webbing but it feels very very solid.

There are a variety of colours of buckle and belts to choose from so you can customise exactly what colours you want. At Ā£30 (inc P&P) I was a little sceptical of the price for what is a slab of laser cut metal and some webbing material but given how comfortable it is to wear, I think it’s a worthwhile investment.

A simple idea, well executed, and stylishly delivered. Delightful.

Definitely my kind of well-designed doohickey!


* Ugh. If anything is gonna turn me away from Instagram it’s going to be the rise of the number of adverts which, given recent news about easier payments through Instagram, is only going to get worse. And yes, I’m aware of the irony of saying this after my recent purchase (which I didn’t click through to buy from Instagram, I’m not a complete hypocrite).

Returning to the routine

It’s been almost two months since we moved into our new home and we are starting to settle in and figure out what our routines are, which means I’m also figuring out how to make time to get back into some of the things I used to do when I was living alone to make sure there is a balance (something that is important to both of us).

That said a lot of my new routine involves the two little dogs I now live with and who I utterly adore (as those on my Instagram can attest) but that’s just a very welcome bonus!

I can tell things are starting to settle down because I’m starting to get back some of my previous habits; I’ve had my gym induction and once this bastard cold leaves me I can start getting my gym routine sorted, I’ve managed to sit down at the piano a couple of times these past few weeks which is just enough to keep my hand in, and (whisper it) I’ve even started to get back into the habit of writing again, mostly in my journal but the urge to delve back into that long lost NaNoWriMo draft is starting to build.

I’m reading more, listening to podcasts more, playing FIFA occasionally, and even managed a little meditation or two last week, all things I didn’t fully appreciate I was missing until I revisited them. I’ve also been sleeping better, largely because I’m reading in bed before I go to sleep so my brain is much calmer and so I’m sleeping better and much more consistently than I have for a long time, which in turn gives me more energy to tackle the new day when it arrives. Win win.

The upheaval of moving home is something I’ve always played down both now and in the past. The last time I moved it was just me to consider so it was easy to manage as there was only me to consult with and only me to make all the decisions, of which were many as I was also consciously decluttering my belongings at the same time.

Moving in with Becca, Sasha, and Dave (the latter two are the dogs) has been a wonderfully happy adjustment and it’s nice to have a place that feels like home. It’s been a long time since I lived with someone and had to make joint decisions, little things like which piece of art print goes on which wall, and I’m lucky that we are both pretty similar in terms of our approach, so getting used to living with someone else again hasn’t been a stress at all (well not for me at least, I’m not sure how long I can get away with blaming my farts on the dogs though…). We are both practical, independent when needed, and happy to discuss things that need discussed. Sure we don’t yet have any art up on the walls but considering that’s the only thing I can think of that I think ā€˜needs’ done, well it’s safe to say my stress levels are low and contentment levels are high.

I say all of this because all this upheaval and change has made me realise how much I need a little structure and a semblance of routine in my life. Now that I have the beginnings of some regular habits I appreciate them all the more when I make the time for them so I’m focussing more on that as we move through the year whilst leaving room for life and living it.

Meditation helps keep me in the now, and I’m conscious of pausing now and then to make sure I’m enjoying whatever it is I’m doing, and yes that includes washing the dishes. Seriously, taking a little time to hand wash dishes, feeling the hot water on your hands, the satisfaction of cleaned plates and glasses, can be a rewarding experience if you look at it that way. So, most evenings I have a few things that need to get done, but the rest of the night is taken more on a whim than a plan.

And there’s the difference I guess, in the past I was bad for planning out evening after evening, and then getting stressed out when something caused those plans to change. These days my life feels a lot less prescriptive than it used to be, I no longer maintain an unrealistic, self-imposed, regime and I’m enjoying life all the more for it.

I’ve mentioned this before I know, my regime; the habit of breaking down entire days into chunks of 30 mins. 30 mins to wake up, get showered, dressed and out the door. 30 mins to get to work. 30 mins of chores when I got home. It was my way of making sure I wasn’t ā€˜lazy’, and rather than trust that I’d have the motivation to, for example, do some hoovering when it was needed, I had each weekday evening planned out, shuffling repeating items around to fit in time with girlfriends and gigs and nights out, with my Sunday evening being the catchment time for all the things that I ā€˜missed’ (god forbid they bleed over into the following week and impact THAT schedule, can you imagine the chaos!!).

These days I’m much more relaxed about that kind of thing. Sure I’m looking to plan which nights I go to the gym but I’ve plenty of evidence from the past couple of years that missing one night here and there isn’t the end of the world (I’ve not failed just because I missed one session). And yes, there are still gigs and nights out to attend, and family and friends to be catch up with, but those things will happen when they happen and everything else can just shuffle around as needed.

I realise a lot of this may seem obvious to many of you but it’s taken me a long time to get to this point, and now that we are settling into our new home I’m starting to appreciate more and more how lucky I am. The knock-on effect of my counselling a couple of years ago is still landing it seems (this is a good thing).

There is still plenty to do in our new home, many of the walls are still bare, the spare rooms still strewn with boxes, but all of that can wait until it really needs done and we know, over time, we will get it all sorted out. For now I’m happy taking things as they come and letting my routine develop.

A small example; Becca works on a Saturday so I’ve already got a little bit of routine where I get some chores done and then walk the dogs. I have to admit the utter joy of spending time in the park with an eager dog who is overjoyed that you keep throwing his ball for him to fetch is something you can’t, and shouldn’t, measure in terms of time but of joy. Plus, he’s THE best boy so that helps.

So my routine is starting to fall into place, naturally and organically as it should, and I could not be happier. I know I need some level of routine, a balance away from the work days, just as I need time to myself occasionally, and I’m comforted by both the slow return of it and that it’s not at the cost of my mental health. It’s oddly elating to be living a life that isn’t built around the possibility of failing, to be living a life that finds me smiling every single time I wake up.

And that is a routine I am wholeheartedly on-board with.

Stalled

I’d just finished baking the cake. I’d let it cool, iced it, and slipped it onto a tray. I picked it up, turned round and stood transfixed as it slid from the tray to the floor with a dull splat.

Such is the analogy I’m using to sum up last week as, not long after my previous post about getting fit and healthy again, I was beset by man-flu (shut up, it’s a thing!). I’m getting past the worst of it now but ugh, talk about great timing…

It has made me realise how much I need a level of routine though, these past few weeks without any real structure to my leisure time has left me a bit disjointed. So, back on track then.

First things first, a tattoo consultation.

Ok this isn’t really part of the whole ‘get fit’ thing but as I’ve always tended to get tattoos at certain points of my life this feels like as good a time as … wow I was starting to believe my own reasoning there! Let’s be honest, any excuse for more ink is A GOOD THING. And, more seriously, anything that makes me feel good about me will contribute to me feeling better in general and in turn give me more energy to get this all going.

That’s my reasoning at least, and I’m sticking to it.

Beyond that I have my gym induction booked for Sunday morning and I’m aiming for 13th April ParkRun as my first goal (whether I run it all or walk part of it, that’s the one I’m starting with). I have new running shoes, and getting back on track with my diet.

So, as a Greek Goddess of victory may or may not have once said, it’s time to Just Do It.