bookmark_borderLucy is 6

Dear Lucy,

Right. You can stop now. Stop all this growing up and going to school and becoming a young woman already. I will not stand for this nonsense!

I jest, a little, but your Aunt Becca and I were just saying the other day how sometimes we see photos of you and can’t believe how grown up you look. Of course you are a big girl now, and a smart one from what we can tell, enjoying doing Maths at school (I’m no help with that I’m afraid) and I definitely think you are enjoying being a big sister to Daisy.

It’s been quite a year hasn’t it, and it seems like no time at all since I was last sitting down to write to you for your birthday. A whole year of learning to be a sister, which I know it’s always fun for you but you’ve adapted so well and it’s clear that you care for Daisy and awful lot. You are also sprouting up again and are constantly full of intriguing questions and wanting to learn about so many things, mind you a lot of that right now is focussed on make up but that’s ok, you’ve got to figure out all the things you like and don’t like, I’m just glad I’ve not had a makeover (yet?).

I do feel a little bad that we haven’t been able to see you too much this past year, the joys of a pandemic followed by the arrival of your cousin Jack curtailed our time together but I’m keen to make up for that when I can, after all what’s the point of having a niece if I can’t spoil her now and then, right? And we’d better take time now before your wee sister starts to get involved too!

You do remind me of your Mum at this age, she had the same wide-eyed fascination and endless energy that you have and I makes me realise how lucky I am that you still want to spend time with me and even trust me enough to show me your secret diary! (sshhhh I won’t tell anyone about your boyfriend, or that his name is Sam!).

What a pleasure and privilege it is to be your Uncle, although I definitely owe you some ice cream I think, so let’s make a date!

Uncle G x

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How an Excel TikToker manifested her way to making six figures a day /// ‘What’s the point of the LEGO Titanic?’ /// “Woke Racism”: Does modern antiracism operate as a dogmatic religion? /// ‘We were two tortured idiots trying to make TV’: The Adam and Joe Show, 25 years on /// Amazon’s race to create the disappearing computer /// The world owes Yoko an apology! 10 things we learned from The Beatles: Get Back /// Why Gambians won’t stop voting with marbles /// The Incredible Tale of the Greatest Toy Man You’ve Never Known /// The Man In Seat 61 on global train travel, hidden subsidies, and Burmese numerals /// Jingle Hell: Tariq Goddard Reviews Christmas Music Tariq Goddard , December 6th, 2021 08:22 /// ‘I spontaneously burst into tears’: How 13 songwriters felt watching the new Beatles documentary /// FANTASTIC MAN /// Inside Apple Park: first look at the design team shaping the future of tech /// “Dopamine Nation”: Why pain is crucial in an era of easy pleasures /// Hans Gruber: the author-turned terrorist who led the attack on the Nakatomi Plaza building /// What humanity should eat to stay healthy and save the planet /// Dumb presents I shouldn’t give peopleDecember 12, 2021 5:51 PM Subscribe /// My 10 Christmas food commandments /// Feel free to stop striving: learn to relish being an amateur

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The Largest Autocracy on Earth /// Hannah Gadsby Full Graduation Address – 14 August 2021 | University of Tasmania /// Would You Compost Your Body to Create Life after Death? /// Why Gen Z is plugging in wired headphones and tuning out AirPods /// 9 Ways to ‘Rewild Your Attention’ /// Mindbending Lego Sculpture /// How finger counting gives away your nationality /// Alisa LiskaFlower (@liskaflower) • Instagram photos and videos /// Dave Grohl Rocks Out, Playing Drums Along to the Original Recording of “Smells Like Teen Spirit” /// How the Maestro Got His Hands Back /// There is no spiking epidemic /// Other People Don’t Think You’re a Mess /// Visualizing Auto-Tuned Vocals (Freddie vs. Bublé) /// How to be a man /// The story of my tattoo: ‘It sounds ridiculous, but it holds me to account’ /// Caroline O’Donoghue: How I imagine an annual performance review with the dog would go /// This Glasgow nightclub is turning your dance moves into renewable energy /// Singapore’s tech-utopia dream is turning into a surveillance state nightmare /// On the Internet, We’re Always Famous /// Ra Paulette’s Hand-Carved Caves /// Every Battery Is a Treasure Box /// What It Takes to Climb the World’s Most Forbidding Cliffs /// How to talk about sexual desires /// Keanu Reeves Knows the Secrets of the Universe /// I Made the World’s Blandest Facebook Profile, Just to See What Happens /// Past, Present, and Future: Use Time Perspectives to Live Better /// Why Giannis Antetokounmpo Chose the Path of Most Resistance /// How to Quiet Your Mind Chatter /// Create your account to start understanding your bias /// I write about news for a living. This is why you need to turn off news notifications

bookmark_borderRescheduled

I’m still not sure how I feel about going and standing in a busy venue, next to hundreds of other people, especially given the current (re-?)rise of COVID instances but given how many gigs I had booked that got rescheduled thanks to the pandemic, it’s something I need to figure out.

I have some time to get my head around it mind you, with gigs from 2020 being rescheduled to 2022 (and one in 2023) and whilst I’ve already missed one (sorry Elbow!) there are a couple on the list below that we will NOT be missing!!

  • Skunk Anansie – 26th April 2022
  • Pet Shop Boys – 29th May 2022
  • Crowded House – 10th June 2022
  • Brass Against – 23rd June 2022
  • Hella Mega Tour – 29th June 2022
  • Elton John – 17th June 2023

Of course we also now have the wonderful additional complication of Jack to consider too – I can see me dragging someone else along to Skunk Anansie – but by the end of May hopefully the wee man will be able to be babysat for an evening whilst Mum & Dad go out and have some fun.

I’ve missed live music, more than I think I even realise, and I am excited to get back to the venues as long as I can shake this unsettling anxiousness that remains. Part of me thinks I’m worrying too much, part of me thinks I should just cancel the lot of them and sell the tickets because I just don’t trust ‘people’ enough to feel safe. That said, many people I trust are back out at gigs, although the pervasive notion seems to be “double jabbed is good enough and sure I might get COVID but I won’t die so what’s the harm?” which doesn’t really set my mind at ease.

Equally I have a family to think about and, as a contractor, if I don’t work I don’t get paid and whilst we have a small buffer in place I find I’m more cautious these days about such things; sidebar to being out on my bike and almost having a very bad incident which was entirely down to my own folly, to which end I am now much more careful on descents and corners lest I end up skidding into another turning on the wrong side of the road and thanking a deity that there aren’t any cars there.

I know these fears and worries will fade, just as I know that as time goes by I find myself yearning to get back out into gig land. I know too that by the time these gigs roll around I’ll feel a lot more comfortable within myself about being out and about amongst the masses, as we unite at the alter of live music. Oh Happy Day!

In fact I know I’ve turned a corner in my thinking because I’m already keeping an eye out for other gigs, although I’m going to need to be pretty picky given the additional logistics to consider. And even if I don’t pick up any other tickets that still leaves Skunk Anansie as a ‘first gig’ back which might just be perfect; it’ll be rammed, hot, busy, and LOUD. Just the thing to finally shake off my COVID fears and get me back out into the world.

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“Rewilding Your Attention” /// How Lizzie Deignan became Queen of Hell /// The Curse of Knowledge: A Difficulty in Understanding Less-Informed Perspectives /// The Gender Researcher’s Guide to an Equal Marriage /// Why philosopher Henri Bergson rejected the word “time” /// How Michelangelo’s David turned Renaissance Italy on its head /// I’m sad at work and don’t know what to do with my life /// Africa’s iconic architecture in 12 buildings /// The Art of Not Taking Things Personally /// COP26: what’s the point of this year’s UN climate summit in Glasgow? /// The K-Pop Fans Who Have Become Anti-Authoritarian Activists in Myanmar /// ‘If you focus on control, you have lost the battle’: how to win back your kids /// Why The Hell Haven’t You Deleted Facebook Yet? /// The Largely Untold Story Of How One Guy In California Keeps The World’s Computers On The Right… /// Writing “Eleanor Rigby” /// Japanese Philosophies That’ll Help You Spend Money Consciously

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Yves & variation /// Learning from the Vessel: How cities can be designed to prevent suicide /// How Life Became an Endless, Terrible Competition /// Culture as counterculture by Adam Kirsch /// How to take an FTP test on Zwift to kickstart your winter training /// 1000 Dreams /// Michael K. Williams was more than just Omar from The Wire. He elevated Black identity onscreen. /// Oh My Fucking God, Get the Fucking Vaccine Already, You Fucking Fucks /// Your beliefs are much harder to justify than you think /// ‘There is so much bad behaviour everywhere’: how to raise a good child in a terrible world /// No Laughing Matter? What the Romans Found Funny /// ‘A Loveable Anarchist’: The Oral History of Mr Blobby /// Baker’s Dozen /// How Facebook Undermines Privacy Protections for Its 2 Billion WhatsApp Users /// How Friendships Change in Adulthood /// It’s Not in Your Head: The World Really Is Getting Worse /// Every Sport a Bowling Ball /// Help! I Couldn’t Stop Writing Fake Dear Prudence Letters That Got Published /// If only the UK could panic-buy prime ministers who know what they’re doing /// Tenet Really Explained, For Real This Time /// Worn Out — Real Life /// How to be a man /// The Spine Collector /// Confessions of a Michelin Inspector